Someone once told me " It is going to get better " & I would be lying if I said I believed that person at that moment. 

Isn't life mysterious & sometimes just crazy. 

Well that's how I see it. 

An endless journey of twists and turns. 

I found myself sitting in a tractor today with my other half. 

How did we get here ? 

Of course the answer is simple: millions of tiny moments and unplanned decisions that got us to now. 

Every decision. 

Every moment. 

Plays a role in this wild life of ours. 

Never knowing fully what the outcome may be. 

Never knowing if we will have guaranteed happiness in life consistently. 

A happy marriage is something I always wanted. 

We never got a happy marriage till later on in our story. 

It was not instant once we said " I do…" 

Me and my husband are very open about our hardships & struggles. 

We are well aware it makes family & friends uncomfortable when we share these types of things online. 

Truth is my husband & I are both flawed. 

There is no shame in saying we simply have never been perfect. 

We needed to go through some dark times, rough patches & chaos to find our footing. 

The thing is our life has been this endless roller-coaster of emotions. 

"It is going to get better." 

That statement is holding true. 

We are happily married with three remarkable kids. 

Life got better along with our marriage after some hard work and dedication to communicating. 

Realizing we both needed each other to live our best lives.

& that is something we needed to figure out in our own time and way.




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